In order to “attract” people in your life, you need to first, be true to yourself. Which means that whatever you think you are or want to be, just forget about that.

Being true means that you have to be spontaneous, you have to act without judgment.

Zen helps to achieve that, Tao helps to achieve that.

So I would advise that you hear from Alan Watts about Zen, and from the Tao Te Ching about Tao.

Then, you will be alright. And then, you will see that you're not alone anymore, and you will be able to connect easily with anyone (when it's needed).

Because, why trying to “attract” people? Aren't they free? If they are, it just means that nothing you can do or even think will help towards that goal.

So if you don't succeed, it's just because what you imagine is unreachable, it's not something we can do, “attracting”.